'MARRIAGE WHILE STUDYING' Should I or Shouldn’t I?
Marriage is one of the sunnah of the Prophet, which encouraged over its followers, and also is a matter of very beautiful when the marriage age traveled with happiness. Here I would like to share with you all about the advantages and benefits of marrying at a young age.
First Benefit
Early marriage can prevent adultery. Young couples who are still studying when a young marriage, they will escape vices because they do have a relationship with big halal and valid. Of couple 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9 or 10 years remain sinful reason during couple much vices can occur. In Islam even actually illegal couple, on the other hand a more beautiful that is, it wants to make love After Marriage.
Second Benefit
Unable to control the lust and avoid vices, now ni too many illegitimate sons case, the case of abandoned babies. This is all happening because of the feeling of love that is added with lust and temptation of the devil then a miraculous adultery. The reason tu encouraged married while learning at a young age, the reason we secure from commit adultery and damned that is safe from sin. When I married, certainly, we will keep our offspring with good and perfect.
Third Benefit
When you got married at a young age, you are in fact already practically safe from disruption of the public. Now we can see it every day beautiful women are interrupted by men. These things often happen to the students of the University. To get married at a young age and have your husband actually already secure from harassment.
Forth Benefit
Outstanding performance after marriage, and got a new passion to learn, no denying it's been many married during the study they obtained excellent results in education and exam. With married, making one more relaxed and their life goals more clearly. They are more focused in the field of education and support from a spouse makes them more excited.
Fifth benefit
Makes you more responsibility, when you married and had a family. You'll change your diligent attitude lazy because you no longer live under the care of mom and dad, but you already have a big responsibility to take care of your family.
Conclusion
There is no doubt that in today’s environment of fitnah and haraam, young students are easily tempted to being led astray. It is extremely difficult to maintain one’s haya
and modesty when the ropes of satan are tugging so strongly at one’s nafs. At such a time we need to recognise that Allah (SWT) has created us with an inner desire for the companionship of the opposite sex and has made it lawful for us to engage in such relationships within the bounds of marriage. There is no compulsion on the quality of life that needs to be lead financially. All we need to ensure is that we have the ability to support ourselves practically, be it through scholarships or part time work or through the efforts of our parents and that we have the emotional intelligence to manage the relationship.
If you are entering the campus environment or are there already and are seriously concerned about the level of your faith and protecting your chastity, you need to conscientiously explore the possibility of marriage through halal means. If you are already in an illicit relationship and would like to make your partner a husband or wife in the future, you need to set the wheels in motion to get married as soon as possible. If you don’t have the financial means or feel you are emotionally not ready, then it is imperative that you end the haraam relationship and say to your partner that it will only resume once you have the means to get married. If they are truly meant for you and for them, you will be able to wait until the time is right. In the meanwhile, get down on your musallah and fervently pray to Allah (SWT) to open a way for you get married as soon as possible.
May Allah (SWT) grant all those who are married blessed marriages, all those who want to get married pious partners and all those who are unable to get married patience in their time of difficulty.
Marriage is one of the sunnah of the Prophet, which encouraged over its followers, and also is a matter of very beautiful when the marriage age traveled with happiness. Here I would like to share with you all about the advantages and benefits of marrying at a young age.
and modesty when the ropes of satan are tugging so strongly at one’s nafs. At such a time we need to recognise that Allah (SWT) has created us with an inner desire for the companionship of the opposite sex and has made it lawful for us to engage in such relationships within the bounds of marriage. There is no compulsion on the quality of life that needs to be lead financially. All we need to ensure is that we have the ability to support ourselves practically, be it through scholarships or part time work or through the efforts of our parents and that we have the emotional intelligence to manage the relationship.
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